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Since then I have been stuck in entry level IT jobs.
My colleagues are all younger than me The pay I can get is only enough to just get by and I haven't even started to pay back the USD 75.000 student debt (a lot by Danish standards) I managed to rake up and I don't know how I'll ever get out of it. I could have done so much more with my life and I am really ashamed about myself.
When I talk with the people from my university years (the only close friends I have) I always have a nagging feeling of regret, failure and envy.
-Do not ask for an Av PD diagnosis for either you or someone you may know. At the time, I thought it was BPD (devaluation and discard). I love him deeply and do not wish to never have contact with him again. After high school I went to university to study law. As long as I just had to go to class, memorize the textbooks and go to exams I did fine.I thought I was on track for a nice comfortable middle class life. When time came and I had to write my final thesis the educational system suddenly demanded much more independence of me.The fear of abandonment, of rejection, of not being wanted is too much to handle, so I believe this plays a big role in our DB. What would a partner need to do or say to make you feel more comfortable with intimacy?If you have or ever had similar feelings, how was that for you? Basically, what for you as avoidants would be the ideal conditions to want intimacy/sex, what would make you feel safe enough to engage in emotionally connected intimacy and sex with the person you love? A community that its main concern is mental wellbeing for GSRM (Gender, Sexual, and Romantic Minority) folk, whether they struggle with mental health issues or not., Also non members of LGBTQ (friends,family members, significant others,therapists...etc) who are concerned about mental health of their loved ones or mental wellbeing of LGBTQ in general are welcomed. Place for people to discuss Avoidant personality disorder.
and I go on and on, even if they say it's alright because I don't believe that it is truly alright because i am still having the thoughts...