Beautiful people intimidating
If there is one phrase I'm tired of men dropping, it's, “You're intimidating."Before I jump up on my soapbox and make myself even more "intimidating," let me write a disclaimer: This article is not intended for the woman you are too afraid to approach.I can't fix the mean girl who blows you off at the bar or the not-so-mean girl you just said has “resting bitch face (RBF).” (Also, I'm pretty sure my brain-on-fire-and-therefore-deep-in-thought face does not mean I'm a bitch, so please stop using “RBF").We've been talking for a while, maybe even tried the dating thing, and for whatever reason, you feel the need to inform me (as if I didn't already know) that I'm intimidating.I applaud your honesty, but why are you telling me this?You will run faster, work harder, inspire more and feel deeper than ever before.Have you ever noticed how many quote junkies there are in the world? They are great, but what if I said you could wake up next to that same inspiration every day by dating the person who inspires (aka intimidates you)?
Hearing, “You're intimidating,” directly from a man is not typically a one-time occurrence.If you find a prospect who provides this, grab ahold and never let go. You want someone who inspires you with her loving, well-intentioned actions — not words or demands. Intimidation builds her own career, makes her own money, pays for her own way and carries her own bags. It would be great to come home to someone who can take the lead; someone I trust can make plans, carry some weight and let me be vulnerable. Albeit biased, I have some of the most amazing female friends; many of whom have been victim to the “You're intimidating” accusation. These same women are stunningly beautiful, many tall and still rocking high heels because they are confident and not sorry for being 6 feet tall. We are intimidating because we grabbed life by the horns and made it the best damn ride possible, and we're still holding on.She has her own friends, hobbies, motivation and passions. To him, I promise to provide the same broad shoulders. The woman you find intimidating wants you and all that you have to offer. They are successful, charismatic, articulate, cultured, hilarious, athletic, compassionate and independent. They crush careers by day and attend dinner parties by night. Sure, we might be a gaggle of intimidation when we take the downtown night by storm, but we are also an SNL skit waiting to be written when we're together.I'm not talking about the woman you're too scared to talk to.I'm talking about the woman that you dream of, finally find and chase down, but then are too afraid to date.
That is, unless you want women to just start calling you a resting assh*le (“RA” for short).